last night i was thinking abt gender shit and realized that my ideal presentation is like, not androgynous in the way that someone might look both masculine and feminine, but in the way an animal with no sexual dimorphism in their species is "genderless". sadly this is probably impossible for me
Feb 4, 2026 02:31unfortunately humans have a lot of traits like breasts, facial hair, etc where the actual dichotomy of having or not having the trait is directly linked to traditional gender perception so you automatically get gendered regardless of whether you have them or not. so frankly i need to become a snake