Hey fun obvious fact, I can’t cum on command. And I hate it when guys say ~come for me~ as if it’s sexy or possible. Orgasms aren’t like a holy grail goal, the whole experience is what matters. And the experience is tainted when so much pressure is put into “making” someone come.
Jan 26, 2026 19:14At that point it doesn’t feel like it’s about our pleasure, and even less about mine. It feels like it’s about your ego. Let go of it. Enjoy being in your body. Just feel and let us truly enjoy each other.