1) A person who is considered family but isn’t technically family. A close personal friend. Suggestion: something akin to “step”. Maybe “Fay”, fits with “friends and family” and works with the current definition of Fay. Ex: “This is my fay-aunt, my mom and her met in middle school.”

2) describe a condition without an official diagnosis or knowledge in a field without formal qualifications. Suggestion: “Dida-” derived from autodidactic. Ex: “As a dida-accountant I’d suggest opening an LLC.” “Here’s what works for me as someone with dida-adhd”