I deleted that last thread because there were a bunch of typos and it was sort of incoherent, so I'll just sum it up here:
I am going to be way more strict about my boundaries moving forwards with how people interact with me and way less tolerant of those boundaries being crossed.
Feb 6, 2026 06:58I'm a-okay with people being turbofreaks and posting horny stuff in my replies or in my DMs, but if I tell someone to stop doing something, I want them to stop doing it. If I tell you that I just want to be friends, I just want to be friends, and unless I say otherwise, that's that.
I've been pretty gentle about this because I have a lot of visceral trauma around making people upset and telling them no, but going forwards if you do something that bothers me and continue to do it after I have told you to stop, then don't be surprised if I stop talking to you.
