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the reason i use labels to mark myself as against antis is bc so many ppl whove been hurt or traumatized by them have said that fandom is such a minefield now that interacting w/ ppl whose stance isnt clear makes them feel unsafe
thats literally it. its literally just to support victims.
Dec 1, 2024 13:42discourse
if "i want people who've been hurt before to know theyre safe around me" is something you think makes me a cringe drama wanker, then your values are incompatible with mine and you ought to show yourself the door
"interacting w/ ppl whose stance isnt clear makes them feel unsafe"
I resonate with this so much. We need to talk about how antis will literally hide their stance entirely and then when a proshipper interacts, accidentally or otherwise, it's suddenly an important thing.