- Particularly when you are given that control, that it often asks me to do things outside the scope of my morality. So by all means: If it is more comfortable for you to paint this as 'a lack of capacity to do heinous things to people' Realize you're painting your lack of morality as the ideal.
- If these timing and circumstances are the issue, it stands to reason that if those were to change the wants and needs would be mutually met. However, if you're unwilling to meaningfully contribute to the change of those circumstances and I have to do it all, why would I give you control?
