But yeah you're exactly right, it makes sense he would always be taken aback initially because sap or not, he's still been a Qunari for 99% of his life if/when your Inquisitor makes that joke during pillow talk, and he's never had to give it thought because it just was never an option for him
But it's nice to embarrass him with a marriage proposal; it's rare to make the former Ben-Hassrath lose his imperturbable demeanor😈
He's so big and so silly, and that's why we love him
Jan 21, 2026 10:22I get you! (I love the wedding joke option too, just that "I love you" always wins out for how tender it becomes) I think that the "kadan" banter in Trespasser proves that everyone including Cole can't resist teasing him about it too
I love all this dialogue options, they're all wonderful. But Yohas can't properly say "I love you" out loud; it's more canonical for him to make a joke
I don't blame anyone who teases Bull; he reacts too well