it is just as rude to insist that having a preference is unreasonable as it is to insist that folks can 'tell' what t/b preference someone has, even when they say they don't have one.
truly we just gotta respect that not everyone thinks the same way if we're gonna talk about dynamics and rudeness, exclusion. Honestly the insistence everyone has a preference is really annoying, some people genuinely just don't care and insisting story-elements or artist elements are the 'gotchya'
Is actually really uncomfortable and I hate when people insist their assumptions are facts
it is very late but unfortunately, that's my take on this conversation. I truly do not mind people being fixed, i prefer ak/eshu and that's no secret but I also strictly understand that in a nsfw sense and people insisting my sfw actions also have associations have made me very uncomfortable
Dec 28, 2025 04:52Like I've been told Ren cries a lot in my story therefor bottom, and I told the person who told me this that actually makes me very uncomfortable, but anyways, if the convo is to be had, that's my two cents
