Ms. Lydia
📍Chicago + Midwest | Washington DC | NYC
⛓️ Professional Dominant Since 2008
🌐 LydiaLinks.com
- I'm 1/4 Filipina from each parent making me only half. But both parents were raised in typical Filipino households. Both Grandmothers were the heads of households. I'm starting to think FLR stands for Filipina Led Relationship. 😂 It's in our DNA 🧬 @astrodomina.bsky.social

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- I love how Sub R gives me his tribute + he gifted me this book. Looking forward to reading this on my flight back to Chicago tomorrow. 💕 Despite the snow, I love my DC boys who made it out to see me. I'll be back on March 2!
- Don't forget that I'm a--- And don't forget that my LF is launched NOW. Click the LF button on the front page of my site!
- So @vivdarkbloom.bsky.social and I are taking a poll. Help us decide Tinklee's fate!
- Tonight is my last night in NYC and I went to one of my favorite Michelin star restaurants with my bestie. 👯♀️ Then I head to Boston 1/21 - 1/23 to see @vivdarkbloom.bsky.social (first 2 days are BOOKED!) Then DC (Arlington!) 1/24 - 1/27.
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- Reposted by Ms. LydiaHappy to be home in Chicago this week with the following lovelies: @audreydavis.bsky.social @lydiasupremacy.bsky.social @hollandofchicago.bsky.social @gemdemilo.bsky.social Bulls... Master Arlo Bill Matt Come celebrate my birthday month with us!
- I hope everyone had a great holiday! I'm recovering from 🎄 + travel and will tackle emails tomorrow!
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- Today has been a pokey poke poke 🪡 day with a first timer to needles.
- Minneapolis was a blast! I bet you wish you were the he-bítch on the floor with @jeanbardot.bsky.social and I making you squirm. She's so much fun to co-domme with and her dungeon is🔥
- You know what's hot? When subs can make requests efficiently. "I'm available 1/6 (3 pm - 7 pm) and 1/7 (10 am - 1 pm). I prefer 1/7." Not "afternoon" or "next week". - "I'd like to order a custom that's X minutes long." Not "not too long". Efficient communication = 🔥🔥🔥
- It's such a turn off when a sub "accidentally" name drops a pro's civ name to brag that he's special enough to know it. Even worse is when they talk about intimate activities when they transition from client to dating (or they meet a pro in a lifestyle setting). *BLOCK*
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- For ‘No Tax on Tips,’ the I.R.S. Gets Intimate The Trump administration wants to exclude earnings from “pornographic activity” from a new tax break for tips. Will the I.R.S. know it when it sees it? ___ Are we surprised? 🙄 www.nytimes.com/2025/12/01/u...
- Stuff men, not turkeys. Hope everyone is having a great day today!

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- Did you know that 96.7% of my subs and fans need to wear this? Are you one of them?
- I logged into my blog from '09 - '12 when I had my first bf/FLR after my vanilla marriage. I also found so many intimate emails. Reading this was such a trip down memory lane! While the relationship wasn't meant to be forever it was certainly foundational. I may have to share!

- Attention DC! Tomorrow (10/13) is my last day here with only 4 pm - 11 pm left. Then it's Pittsburgh 10/14 - 15!

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- Waiting to get my flu and covid shots and thinking of what @lsbrandicox.bsky.social is. 🚽 🥰
- So many will "suffer" to be "pleasing" if suffering = self-serving kinky pleasure. But how many will put ego aside and welcome correction? How many will learn new mannerisms and behavior? How many will go with less so she can have more?
- Are you a gentleman who enjoys submitting to an Alpha Woman's desires and making her happy or are you just some guy who likes making women upset and "getting punished"? Guess which one Mistresses like better.
- Eight years ago today at @mspetrahunter.bsky.social's studio in Dallas!
- Flashback to Montreal Fetish Weekend 2011. Walking for the @westwardboundlatex.bsky.social latex fashion show. That was the last year I attended. Plans to go back in 2026! I wonder who will be the pet at the end of my leash. 🧐
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- That's right! You'll never be mine because I never see anonymous wishers who hide behind laptop screens sitting around wishing all day. Go figure I only ever see doers who book a session and show up. That goes for me and literally every other Mistress on earth.
- Stella was my first collared sIave and she was mine for exactly 5 years to the day. She was let go on her ensIavement anniversary because she wasn't bringing me joy anymore. But God damn for the first 4 years I had so much fun! This was year 3.
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- Ten years ago in Miami modeling for the talented Brigitte More of Lovely Latex. Me in pink! 🩷
- Midwest travel dates! Please repost! Detroit: Aug 24 - 27 Indianapolis: Sept 7 - 9
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