You mean like a bottom? This is so very stupid
People try not to see bottom as a derogatory term challenge, level impossible etc
Like I don't try to point out the most obvious connection behind this thought process, because wlw shippers (not all but a lot) love to use this connection to hate on mlm shippers: but it is misogyny. The physical receiver is always seen as weak, and other shit because women are seen as inferior!
It's so annoying because people try to paint bottom/top as homophobic terms, when they just aren't. It's so Ugh. Very annoying