The problem is I also need like a more adult adult to hold me accountable but also not tell me what to do. (AuDHD)
Otherwise I’m just making elaborate plans I follow for 2 days.
I thought my husband could be this but unfortunately he’s even hotter than I am.
Feb 4, 2026 23:23Oh yeah I call them Anchor Boyfriends. You date a level headed, organized adult-brained guy and he goes "You can't buy a $800 drumset, you're gonna get frustrated after one week & stop playing. Start learning drums with a $25 drumpad first"
Then you say "But thats boring--oh shit he's right"
And then you have to pretend you’re still into it for a couple weeks of shame until you kind of have to admit it because you sold your drums to buy an English longbow, yes I am feeling so understood
