this is also more commonly an Internet problem too, where people read presented affect and assume they know everything about someone, but it makes my skin crawl. there's loads of trans people i know who I would be friends with regardless of our shared gender situation, but there's as many i wouldn't
Sep 9, 2025 11:01i joined a 196 matrix chat once and instantly got weird sexual comments bc everyone is assumed to be kinky based on the fact it's a chatr around a shitpost subreddit with some shitposts being nsfw. honestly we need to hold our horses with sexual liberation until these fuckers learn how to be normal.
