Eric Miller
2x Best Selling Author | Founder🌟 | Spiritual Director | Speaker | Veteran | Avid Cyclist | linktr.ee/ericconsults
- I began this eBook in early fall after hearing many wonder where God is in everyday life. After my daughter Ericka passed, the writing changed. It became a reminder that even in grief, God meets us quietly. Download What If God Is Closer Than You Think? www.newmindsetpathways.com/what-if-god-...
- My routine shattered overnight. The show paused, the writing stopped, and I’ve been trying to find my way through the fog. I finally wrote about what happened and why everything went silent. If you’re curious, it’s here. open.substack.com/pub/ericmill... #healinginrealtime #leadershipwithheart
- When love starts feeling like silence instead of safety something is deeply wrong. Control isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s polite, reasonable… and suffocating. open.substack.com/pub/alliedwe... #LoveAndControl #WomenWhoRise #RealStrength #AlliedWeCan
- Some losses don’t fade with time. You move on, but the ache remains asking to be heard, not silenced. What if healing isn’t about fixing? Read “The Ache That Won’t Let Go” open.substack.com/pub/ericmill... #spiritualhealing #griefjourney #faithandhealing #innergrowth #NewMindsetPathways
- When life shifts and nothing feels certain, it’s not failure, it’s transformation in progress. If you’re standing in that in-between space, this new piece might speak to you. Read “When Everything Changes” open.substack.com/pub/ericmill... #NewMindsetPathways #SpiritualdDirection #InnerGrowth
- Control feels like protection, but it’s really fear in disguise. Real love begins when you stop trying to manage it and start trusting it. Watch Episode 17: Love Without Control. youtu.be/5Bh_IR1sbTw #EmotionalGrowth #LoveWithoutControl #RealConnection #AlliedWeCan
- They told you control makes you strong. But what if it’s the very thing keeping you from real love, loyal teams, and peace of mind? Strength built on domination always collapses. Read When Being “Alpha” Backfires open.substack.com/pub/alliedwe... #Relationships #Growth #AlliedWeCan
- Most of us defend before we apologize. Try one week of simply saying, “I’m sorry,” without excuses. When you do, celebrate it—feel the peace honesty brings. That’s real strength. Watch Episode 17 youtu.be/5Bh_IR1sbTw #EmotionalGrowth #RealConnection #AccountabilityMatters #AlliedWeCan
- We were taught that control equals strength … but it only builds walls, not love. In Love Without Control, I share how men can trade dominance for depth and discover connection that lasts. youtu.be/5Bh_IR1sbTw #UnmaskingManhood #LoveWithoutControl #HealthyMasculinity #Relationships
- What if the hurt you’re carrying isn’t the end of your faith story, but the start of something sacred? Read When Faith Hurts and see what healing might look like when you stop walking alone. open.substack.com/pub/ericmill... #FaithJourney #SpiritualDirection #Deconstruction
- Every goal reached fades fast because you were never meant to earn your worth. Episode 16 dives into how peace begins when you stop chasing and start believing you’re enough. youtu.be/Ok65qc_qvSE #UnmaskingManhood #HealthyMasculinity #YouAreEnough #TrueWorth
- It’s not just happening to boys. Gen Z girls are changing what they post, wear, and say—because of what’s now considered “normal.” When hate goes viral, silence becomes survival. Read Not Just Boy Talk. open.substack.com/pub/alliedwe... #YouthMentalHealth #GenZ #OnlineCulture #AlliedWeCan
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- Success and wealth can be good until they define who you are. When worth depends on what you earn or own, identity becomes fragile. Episode 16 explores how to build strength that lasts. youtu.be/Ok65qc_qvSE #UnmaskingManhood #HealthyMasculinity #TrueWorth #EricMiller #AlliedWeCan
- We’re told to always achieve, always perform. But stillness reveals who we are without the show. Episode 16, explores how stepping back, not grinding harder, builds lasting strength and identity. youtu.be/Ok65qc_qvSE #UnmaskingManhood #HealthyMasculinity #AlliedWeCan #RedefiningSuccess #EricMiller
- I spent years chasing success, thinking it proved I was blessed. But the more I achieved, the emptier I felt. My new piece explores how striving can drown out ... open.substack.com/pub/ericmill... #TrueSelf #SpiritualFormation #NewMindsetPathways
- Culture says bigger is better. Paycheck, house, title. But when size defines success, enough never feels like enough. Episode 16 youtu.be/Ok65qc_qvSE #UnmaskingManhood,#HealthyMasculinity #RedefiningSuccess #IntegrityOverImage #EricMiller
- When success defines our worth, we’re trapped in endless proving. Real strength isn’t measured by output, it’s rooted in who we are, not what we do. Episode 16 explores how to break free. youtu.be/Ok65qc_qvSE #UnmaskingManhood #HealthyMasculinity #TrueWorth #AlliedWeCan #EricMiller
- You hit every goal, climb every rung, and still feel… empty. I know that feeling too well. Maybe the ladder we’ve been climbing doesn’t lead where we think it does. open.substack.com/pub/alliedwe... #MasculinityRedefined #PurposeDriven #AlliedWeCan #MensMentalHealth #UnmaskingManhood #EricMiller
- If your worth depends on the size of your paycheck, house, or title, it’s built on shaky ground. Real strength isn’t measured in numbers, it’s rooted in character and impact. Episode 16 youtu.be/Ok65qc_qvSE #UnmaskingManhood, #HealthyMasculinity, #AlliedWeCan, #EricMiller
- We’re taught that success defines us, the job, the paycheck, the next win. But when achievement feels hollow, it’s time to ask: who are you beyond what you do? This episode explores worth beyond work. youtu.be/Ok65qc_qvSE #UnmaskingManhood #AlliedWeCan #HealthyMasculinity #EricMiller
- Achievement can’t fill the space left by a father who wasn’t there. Many high achievers chase validation they never received. Healing starts with understanding why. Watch Episode 15. youtu.be/S5pI2MctThM #FatherWounds #HealingMasculinity #SelfWorth #EricMiller #AlliedWeCan
- Reposted by Eric MillerPritzker: "In any other country, if federal agents fired upon journalists & protesters when unprovoked what would we call it? If officials marched down streets harassing civilians & demanding their papers, what would we say? I don't think we'd have trouble calling it what it is: authoritarianism"
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- The absence of a father leaves more than a memory it shapes how you trust, love, and lead. But your past doesn’t have to define your future. Read the article to see how men can break free. www.alliedwecan.org/blog/fatherl... #RewriteYourStory #HealthyMasculinity #AlliedWeCan
- An absent father leaves more than silence, he leaves questions that echo in every relationship. Fear of rejection. Walls around trust. Episode 15 of Unmasking Manhood unpacks this Father Gap. Watch now youtu.be/S5pI2MctThM #FatherGap #HealingMasculinity #AlliedWeCan #UnmaskingManhood #EricMiller
- Authoritarian leaders often mask old wounds. A missing father can fuel control, fear, and false strength. Real masculinity is presence, not domination. Find out how to heal and lead differently—watch Episode 15. youtu.be/S5pI2MctThM #AlliedWeCan #FatherGap #EricMiller #FatherWound
- What looks like community for young men often hides a trap. A movement that promised purpose ended in tragedy, consuming one of its own. Discover the story behind Charlie Kirk and the cost of chasing identity. www.alliedwecan.org/blog/stolen-... #CharlieKirk #GenZ #ToxicMasculinity #AlliedWeCan
- I’ve lived it, chasing muscle until the barbell owned me. I watched it take hold in cycling too, where even amateurs turned to doping just to stay “relevant.” Episode 14: Reveals what real strength looks like. youtu.be/A4h5l-RudeE #BreakingTheCycle #TheMirrorLie #UnmaskingManhood #AlliedWeCan
- What happens when the body you build to prove your worth starts to crack? I disspell the lie that masculinity lives in the perfect physique, and shows the strength that actually lasts. open.substack.com/pub/alliedwe... #UnmaskingManhood #StrengthWithPurpose #CarvedButCrumbling #AlliedWeCan
- I chased strength at the barbell, but the mirror never said “enough.” Surrendering showed me real power … living present, connected, and free. Watch Episode 14: The Mirror Lie youtu.be/A4h5l-RudeE #RecoveryJourney #TheMirrorLie #HealthyMasculinity #BreakingFree #EricMiller #AlliedWeCan
- Reposted by Eric MillerWe don’t yet know what motivated the person who shot and killed Charlie Kirk, but this kind of despicable violence has no place in our democracy. Michelle and I will be praying for Charlie’s family tonight, especially his wife Erika and their two young children.
- Muscles don’t make the man. Presence, resilience, and service do. Episode 14 shows how to move from body obsession to real strength. Watch now. youtu.be/A4h5l-RudeE #TheMirrorLie #StrengthWithPurpose #UnmaskingManhood #AlliedWeCan #EricMiller
- Stress clouds judgment. Fear shrinks options. Anger burns bridges. Emotional literacy breaks the cycle, helping men make better choices with stronger outcomes. Watch Episode 13: Beyond Anger youtu.be/xEGY4Qru-vg?... #BetterDecisions #BeyondAnger #HealthyMasculinity #EricMiller #AlliedWeCan
- Under pressure, we react instead of reflect—leaving our choices controlled by fear. Emotional literacy gives us back clarity, and freedom. Watch Episode 13: Beyond Anger youtu.be/xEGY4Qru-vg?... #ResilientLeadership #BeyondAnger #HealthyMasculinity #UnmaskingManhood #EricMiller #AlliedWeCan
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- Strongmen thrive when men can’t name their feelings. Fear and anger get twisted into control. Real strength is learning the lost language of emotions. Watch Episode 13: Beyond Anger youtu.be/xEGY4Qru-vg #HealthyMasculinity #BeyondAnger #LeadWithIntegrity #UnmaskingManhood
- Strength isn’t silence. Hiding feelings turns into rage, broken ties, and control by false leaders. Episode 13 uncovers the lost language men need to find freedom and real strength. Get episode 13 here: youtu.be/xEGY4Qru-vg #BeyondAnger #AuthenticStrength #UnmaskingManhood #AlliedWeCan #EricMiller
- A big flaw that our forefathers didn’t foresee was that ill will people would be at the top of government.
- I only wish it wasn’t against the law for a governor to refuse troops.
- My body finally told me the truth: I couldn’t outrun my limits. Denial left me stuck, but humility set me free. Authentic living brings clarity, strength, and better decisions. Episode 12: The Confidence Con. Watch now. youtu.be/9dTHYLZuRGc?... #MensGrowth #UnmaskingManhood #AlliedWeCan #EricMiller
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- Good on you.
- Toxic relationships often breed toxic masculinity—teaching men to hide fear with fake toughness. Real confidence isn’t loud; it’s built on values and truth. Watch Episode 12: The Confidence Con. youtu.be/9dTHYLZuRGc?... #UnmaskingManhood #Confidence #EricMiller #AlliedWeCan
- Does DJT have the power to do this?
- Fake toughness looks solid until life applies pressure. Then it cracks. The real question is: what does genuine confidence actually look like? open.substack.com/pub/alliedwe... #HealthyMasculinity #AuthenticConfidence #UnmaskingManhood #AlliedWeCan
- The “alpha” pose is a trap. Fake toughness keeps men weak… angry, defensive, disconnected. Real confidence grows from competence and values, not bravado. Listen or watch Episode 12: youtu.be/9dTHYLZuRGc #MensGrowth #Authenticity #UnmaskingManhood #EricMiller #AlliedWeCan
- WTF
- We need more F***ing Dem leaders to do their jobs also.
- What happens when a boy learns fear instead of love from the man he’s told to look up to? For too many raised by single moms or abusive father figures, masculinity gets distorted. Watch Episode 11: Broken Mold. youtu.be/oe-qXdaykcU?... #UnmaskingManhood #FatherWound #EricMiller #AlliedWeCan
- WTF. Is there any bounds to the cruelty?
- On the outside I looked like an “alpha.” Inside, I was unraveling relationships broken, anxiety constant, emptiness growing. I know I’m not the only one. I share the truth in my latest piece. www.alliedwecan.org/blog/lie-tha... #ToxicMasculinity #MensMentalHealth #UnmaskManhood
- Unbelieveable.
- Raised to be tough. Told not to cry. Taught that pain was weakness. But what if the real strength comes from breaking that mold? Eric Miller shares his story in Episode 11 of Unmasking Manhood. 🎧 Watch youtu.be/oe-qXdaykcU?... #BreaktheCycle #BrokenMold
