Somekindofcontraption
35
(She/They)
Writer, Artist, Future Therapist
✨Neurodivergent and Queer AF✨
BLM - LAND BACK 🍉
“FIX YOUR HEARTS OR DIE”
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- My ex telling me that he was worried I was getting too fat to fuck him was one of many things that should have been last straws but I still stayed for well over two years after that. In a lot of ways I don’t regret it.
- I left on my terms when I was ready to leave and what I’ve come to understand is that the epitaph of “I should have left sooner” is a form of victim-blaming we perpetuate against ourselves. It is not helpful. Reframe it.
- Leaving when I was ready left me free to get in touch with my needs, to pursue my long-held personal and career goals, to heal, and to eventually meet someone who treats me like a partner instead of a therapist or mom. I was able build a meaningful, authentic for myself, and I deserve that.
- EVERY FANDOM has that fic that is basically Twilight: poorly planned/executed, badly written, meaningless, and with obsessive fans who will bite your head off for offering any sort of analysis/critique, even if you are polite and don’t do it to the author.
- I’m so old and have been in so many fandoms that it’s like clockwork. I should do a bingo card for every new fandom I join.
- Mark a square if: The writer feels like they are famous and treats fellow fans as such. The writer seems to absolutely love the smell of their own farts. The writing gets demonstrably worse as time goes on. The story never resolves or if it does it’s in a meaningless or unsatisfying way.