Every time I see a "clients do NOT do this" thread on reddit, it's 100% full of personal preferences like "Don't pinch my nipples", and "Don't slap my ass."
Just say you're boring in bed already 🤷♀️
Every swer is 100% allowed their own boundaries. But those boundaries do NOT extend to every experience that client might have.
It is your job to communicate those boundaries before your sessions.
Some escorts do not kiss, some do! Saying "Don't try to kiss escorts" is bullshit.
Feb 2, 2026 18:01The answer is communication to find a proper match between the worker and client. If the worker can't communicate their likes and dislikes to the clients, that is partially the fault of the worker. Stigma and fear aside. Because that CAN be done before you're ever in the room with them. 🤷♀️
If you don't give clients the opportunity to chose you based on your boundaries, and instead just expect them to somehow know and "Respect you" (respect looks different to everyone btw), then of course you're BOTH gonna have a bad time.
Also you might be boring in bed 🤷♀️