my partners and I used to watch porn together, it's so weird how the default is to feel jealous or insecure about someone else's needs - you have to understand that sex required mental energy and sometimes you just need to masturbate instead and that's not wrong! It's body health
Consuming porn is not immoral
Consuming porn is not a sin
Consuming porn is not a character flaw
Consuming porn does not make you undateble
Consuming porn does not make you a bad person