the final vote on my tenure case is this Friday. despite my husband’s sense we should do something “monumental” like “go to New Zealand” if it’s finalized, all I’ve asked for is steaks & a fancy salad at home. it’s been a very long process. I’m too tired for New Zealand.

Kudos to hubby for supporting/pampering you. It's difficult to get excited about the good things when we are struggling with depression. I'm proud of you for being here. 🙏💓✨