i also have to be endlessly mindful of how i talk about this because i might say all the right things but if someone else agrees with me and doesnt then i have to go thru the trouble of correcting them and saying no no comrade this is not how we do it here
Totally understand where you're coming from having to walk on glass eggshells any time you say anything. Esp as a trans guy abused by a trans woman for years, it's hard to get across that I don't just hate all trans women because of one individual. I mostly shut up but you're doing the lord's work.
Feb 2, 2026 02:43