- #TheVictorianBookoftheDead A widow in a long-lappeted widow's cap, white collar (indicating--per etiquette books--her loss is older than 6 months, when white collars and cuffs could be added) a beaded watch chain and a very large oval mourning brooch with pointed fringes. 1870s. Personal collection
- I wish we'd bring back symbolism like this -- not as extreme, but, say, a black armband.Jan 30, 2026 14:51