remembering today the last time I joined a big bang project, signed in to the disc0rd server and took up residence in the nsfw channel and almost immediately the mods put the channel in slow mode and started scolding us for “using feminine language to describe males’ parts”
my friend and I were like “bro wtf??” and then they were like “mods are trans and are uncomfortable with this behavior… please don’t refer to felix as having a pussy bc it’s feminine language” and I am not even kidding I withdrew from the big bang immediately
i guess when you're the one hosting the event you can project your own internalized discomfort onto everyone else but that doesn't mean i have to dedicate my time and talent to your project then!
it was even funnier bc i wasn't *technically* identifying as nonbinary then, but my friend was transmasc, so like. you can't play the "i'm (xyz)" card when some of the ppl you're playing it against are gnc too
Feb 4, 2026 19:42
